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Another complaint the original Urban Dater author had was that many guys subscribe to a double-standard regarding anal penetration.“I know men that freak out when people even joke about going near their anal cavity,” she writes, “yet have no problem encouraging a woman to take it up the ass.” I actually tend to agree with her on this particular gripe, although I believe there is a far more complex system at work here for which it is not entirely fair to blame men as individuals.
So yeah, I vote with my vag in cases like those and instead choose to fuck people who are more comfortable with themselves, which is my prerogative as well as the author’s in selecting our respective partners.(*as long as it’s consensual, but come on, do I really have to specify that?) Some women do report stronger orgasms as a direct result of anal sex.Finally there are women who may enjoy anal sex because they enjoy pleasing their partners.(As a service-oriented submissive, I fall into this category, too.) And newsflash: It’s totally OK to enjoy something because you enjoy pleasing the person you’re with.I shouldn’t have to explain that it is the gender of the people you choose as partners and not the activities you choose to do with those partners that determines your sexual orientation (and nor is any one sexual orientation better than another, although some are unfortunately afforded more privileges at this point in our history), but somehow it’s a revelation that is still just occurring to some people.As Charlie Glickman, author of “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure,” has famously said, “When you can’t be present in your ass, you can’t be fully present in your body.” I don’t expect every guy to be into anal penetration.That doesn’t make it any less valid a form of enjoyment.Many humans of all genders take immense pleasure in seeing the person they’re fucking having a grand time.While there seems to be no data explicitly on female anal orgasms (shocking, I know.Like come on, it’s 2015), many women report that ass-fucking allows for a unique kind of G-spot stimulation that can be orgasmic in and of itself.