Dating call lines
However, it wasn’t until I broke the rules that I realized this type of situation can’t be so easily explained or dismissed.
Experience is the best teacher of all and this particular experience was an eye-opener and game-changer for sure. I met up with a friend one Saturday afternoon at a bar for a football game. He was cute, charming, and we seriously hit it off right away.
But if you want to, um, then yeah, sure okay I guess I mean if you want to” “Um okay.
See you soon.” At this point, I was absolutely panicked.
Maybe he just wasn’t that into me at first but my boldness, and subsequent cool-ness about the whole thing changed his mind?
(According to the guy friends I’ve spoken to, these theories are the most likely.) He was definitely into me the night we met, then after he wasn’t into me, but then my calling him sent him back to being into me, the point is, it’s never cut and dry.
It went something like this: “Hey, it’s Sabrina” “Oh, um hi.
Once you’ve hit day four all hope dissipates and you must sadly accept the fact that you will never be hearing from him.I almost called him back to cancel the whole thing.If the phone call was that awkward I didn’t even wanna think about how awful an actual date would be!I didn’t get it, he was so into me that weekend, what could have possibly changed so dramatically?I called a few friends to tell them what had just happened and they couldn’t help but laugh at the sheer awfulness and hilarious awkwardness of it all.Well I firmly believed this for a while but now I’m gonna have to say that’s not always the case.Through the years I, like most of you, I’m sure, have found myself in those infamous and utterly maddening situations.Feelings are complicated, I mean you can be totally hot for someone one minute and totally turned off the next.And just because something started out going in one direction it doesn’t mean you can’t take control and reroute.I looked at him, stunned, “Sorry, I forgot how pretty you are.” The only thought resounding in my head was WTF?!?I was dying to ask why he didn’t call me but I restrained myself.